What Makes A Good Strong Woman?

What makes a good strong woman is what she is not. Confusing? Let me sink that into you.

1. She is not a petty liar

A good strong woman is straightforward. Yes is a yes and no is a no. No room for maybes. She won’t pretend that she’s in the moment when she’s not. She won’t like it or hate it to be liked or hated. She likes what she likes and hates what she hates and other’s opinions don’t really matter. It is not that she’s cold-hearted and insensitive but she has no time for sugarcoating and tweetums. White lies are on the least list.

2. She is not cute

A good strong woman is definitely not cute but daring. Most people would get intimidated and she doesn’t care at all about first impressions. She will be annoyingly attractive that you will notice every move she does; how she flips her hair, how she sips her coffee, how she walks, how she talks, and you will even notice even the littlest mannerisms she has. She is annoying but challenging and she does not care which of it she is because she is innately daring.

3. She is not a diamond

A good strong woman is not a precious diamond but an astounding pearl. She made what she is and was not born with it. She was not born in the silver platter but with hard-earned history. Whatever beauty she has come from deep wounds and painful courses. She molded who she was from every distorted circumstance where she doubted herself but was the only one who believed as well. Tho not as expensive as a diamond but more notable and unforgettable than any materialistic object.

4. She is not a head-turner

A good strong woman will not make your head turn but your whole world. She will change your perspective in life and how you see things about everything. She will give you a better view of what you used to neglect and pass by. She will make you a changed person, a better version. She can make you believe in the impossible because she is the proof of all your what ifs. She can make it feel like you need her in your life like a necessity but she can definitely be on her own.

5. She is not a superwoman

A good strong woman is not a superwoman who saves the day but a grown-up woman who can contain every day no matter how damaged she becomes. She does not have any superpower to protect herself from any harm rather she embraces every danger and make art with every wound. She is not immortal rather very fragile to be humane and empathize with every broken soul. And lends a part of her despite her brokenness alone just to give hope for those who cannot be as brave as she can be.

A GOOD STRONG WOMAN IS NOT VALUABLE because her worth cannot be measured by any cost of earthly bodies or materials. A good strong woman is a once in a lifetime phenomenon to happen in your life and it’s for you to keep or to lose.